The Way We Build


Hello Friends,

This week, I'm thinking about building.

So many creatures build: Homes. Water systems. Food traps. Food storage. Family. Community.

They build on purpose and inadvertently, just by living. Whole forests are seeded this way.

We humans are no different. We build houses, machines, symphonies, gardens, networks, stories… a series of interactions with each other and the world.

We destroy, too, like other creatures, but at a seemingly exponential rate. Trouble is, we often don’t destroy what needs destroying, but we destroy the very things we love. The things that keep us alive.

To counteract wanton destruction, begins by returning to our impulses to build. The trouble is, sometimes those two impulses—creation and destruction—go hand in hand. Well, I say trouble, but that isn’t always true, is it? Sometimes space needs to be cleared for things to grow. But other times, space is cleared when greed is the only seed being sown.

So, let me start that part again: To counteract wanton destruction, we must root our impulse to build in a wish to share our wealth, to seed healthy lives for others and ourselves. We must heed the instinct toward a longevity captured inside dailiness.

This is how I write books: I capture a set of words in pixels every day. Then I allow that creative field to lay fallow for brief stints while other work gets done.

While destruction can be quick or grindingly methodical, building has a cadence, too. Over centuries, the cadence of building has eroded.

Humans no longer sing work songs together.

We are expected to be in states of constant building, with no relief, until our productive lives wind down.

This stifles the creative impulse, turning building itself into a methodical grind. And where’s the fun in that?

So today, I’ll ask the question:

What are you building that feels satisfying, joyous, or fun?

wishing you well — Thorn


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